There are many different schools of feng shui, each with different orientations and perspectives. Sometimes they even contradict each other. One area where there are a few different guidelines, depending on which school of feng shui you follow, is the topic of bed-facing mirrors . Some feng shui schools do not recommend this at all.
the command position
In some other schools of feng shui ( you can read more about it at forsimplytech ), like BTB Feng Shui, we suggest placing a mirror facing the bed in certain situations. An example where this is useful is when you need to fix a bed that is not in command position.
When your bed is in command position, you can see the bedroom door while lying in bed, without being directly in line with the door. This allows you to have a wider view of the room and the fullest awareness of anything or anyone that may be approaching. This puts you in command and control of your life .
Your bed represents you, so it’s one of the most important pieces of furniture to have in the commanding position. You also spend many passive hours relaxing and sleeping in bed, so the feng shui of your bed really affects you. Having your bed under control can also reduce your anxiety and stress levels and help you sleep more soundly .
Sometimes it is not possible to put your bed in command position. Maybe your room is small or oddly shaped, or the furniture only fits in the room a certain way. If you have to arrange your room so that your bed is out of control, and you can’t see the door when you’re in bed, that’s when a mirror comes in handy. In BTB feng shui, we recommend that you place a mirror in a location that allows you to see your bedroom door from your bed , which means you will have a mirror facing your bed. On a practical level, if you have insomnia, seeing your own reflection in the middle of the night can distract you and make it difficult to sleep. But as long as mirror placement doesn’t bother you or keep you up at night, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with it.
How to fix the power of the mirror facing your bed
Regardless of the feng shui school, if a mirror in your bedroom makes you uncomfortable or worried, you should pay attention to it. Feng shui, like most things, is not a one-size-fits-all approach and it is important to trust your own instincts . A bed-facing mirror might be great for your best friend, but it might not be the best choice for you. If you have a bedside mirror that is bothering you, the best way to remedy this is to move the bed or mirror.
If you can’t do that because the mirror is a permanent fixture, like a mirrored wall or a closet door, do what you can to work with it. You can hang a piece of fabric or a scarf over the mirror while you sleep, or use a matte film to cover the mirrored surface.
Tips
When it comes to bedroom mirrors, keep these practices in mind:
- If possible, avoid second-hand or antique mirrors, as they may have the energy of previous owners.
- Make sure the mirror is the right size for the space.
- Treat yourself to the best and highest quality mirror you can afford.
follow your intuition
While some schools say it’s best not to have mirrors in the bedroom, even if they’re not facing the bed, we recommend that you stick to what your intuition tells you is best for your situation.
It’s important to remember that just because different feng shui schools may have different recommendations for the same situation, it doesn’t mean that some school is incorrect or invalid. If you’re feeling confused because of conflicting advice, the best thing to do is find a feng shui practitioner you trust and get their professional opinion for your specific space and circumstances.
